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Why does it hurt so bad?

I recently spoke with a relative of mine the other day. We reminisced on old boyfriends and relationships. We talked about the good, the bad, and the ugly. She is now in a relationship where she is happy, he supports her, and they respect each other. I am happy for her. The relationship she had previously, I was definitely not thrilled about. After discussing this in detail with her, we discovered that her ex's sexual confusion had subsequently resulted in a lot of emotional and physical detriment. With her no longer with him, I was free to express my true feelings about his tired ass. In so doing, we discovered that many of those suspicions, feelings, and assumptions were shared.

So the question left is....

Why do we consistently torture ourselves?

I've heard of instances where girlfriends have had weight loss ultimatums from their beaus, or their beaus have been caught in compromising situations, flipped the script, and blamed the girlfriend, or the straight up gimme, gimme, gimme type beaus who's girlfriends are scratching their heads saying, "What have you done for me lately?"-Janet, Ms. Jackson if you're nasty.

All I'm saying when will we (me included) say enough is enough. We have tricked these guys and ourselves into thinking that we are lucky to have a man, any man, and that...that ain't cool (beanie siegel voice). It's time for us to turn the tables and take back the respect, and dignity, and love we deserve. We don't need them for anything, well maybe one thing and even that is optional depending on which way you sway.

P.S. There are new studies showing that semen can be produced from female bone marrow. Crazy but true.
http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn11601-bone-stem-cells-turned-into-primitive-sperm-cells.html

But I still prefer regular insemination and the fun preceding. lol.

- C. Cheddar